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Forgewell Solutions News for patients and therapists. Karen Peabody shares information about groups and events in our office. She also offers inspiration and motivation for therapists interested in starting their own private practice.

  • Writer: Karen Peabody, LICSW
    Karen Peabody, LICSW
  • Jan 22, 2020


I remember learning about EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) in Graduate School. It was 2004, Simmons College when I watched a video of Francine Shaprio, Ph.D. demonstrating her technique of holding two fingers in front of a client’s eyes moving her fingers from side to side. I can remember thinking, “This is crazy”. It was not until 8 years later that I decided to revisit this concept. It took me that long to learn she was on to something.


We have come to learn trauma is a whole different animal in the world of psychology. Big traumas and little traumas are stored in our brains, creating pathways that affect the way we think about ourselves and the world. Traumas and the emotions that develop from trauma change the way we navigate this world. This is because trauma is stored in your amygdala, which is a central part of the midbrain, not easily accessed. This is a central force of decision making, emotional reactions, and memory. This is part of our “instinctual” brain. The part where logic doesn’t live. This traumatic experience becomes a vulnerability, around which a story is then created. This story usually ends with some sort of self-criticizing thought, “I am weak”. It is a big concept. A client remembers being bitten by a dog at 4 years old however he had no idea it would lead to a pervasive feeling that he is weak. The neuropathway is created linking “fear” and “I am weak”. Because this is shocking and significant, it is something that becomes hypersensitive, therefore every time he is confronted with the feeling of “fear” or “I am weak”, the pathway becomes stronger. Either variable can trigger this pathway, making this vulnerability more susceptible to growth. So, 15 years later he is still very sensitive to any message he interprets as “I am weak”, or an experience which results in fear. His emotional response is that of a four-year-old child because this is where the vulnerability started.


When clients experience these hypertensive emotions, they feel very out of control because their reactions are usually disproportionate to their regular feelings. The emotional vulnerability is there, however, the long distant memory if being bitten by the dog is fleeting and thus the emotional turmoil is a mystery. Most of the time these memories of our painful events are not “repressed” as some might think. The event is stored in a different part of the brain. The client might know he was bitten by a dog at 4 years old, however, he had no idea it would lead to this pervasive concept that he is weak. Which is precisely why EMDR is so powerful. Clients can go to therapy and talk about their feelings for a long time. But if they can’t change the neuropathways that developed through the painful event to change the emotional connection, they are never going to resolve the negative emotions that govern their life.


So, how does EMDR work? It is easy, bilateral stimulation. Using bilateral stimulation, meaning that stimulating both hemispheres of a person’s brain, will trigger other parts of the brain to work. In everyday interaction, most people are utilizing their frontal cortex, which is executive functioning such as planning, working memory, and task completion. Moving a hand in front of someone’s face, forcing their eyes to move from side to side, both hemispheres are stimulated, thus activating other parts of the brain which store some of these complex neuropathways. We have advanced from 1987. Today bilateral situations can be created through touch and sound also. Tappers are a popular method of creating stimulation and a lot less work for the therapist. This allows the client to hold a small device in each hand as it alternates vibrations, or allowing a client to wear headphones that play soft music alternating in each ear. The results can be profound.


Is EMDR an amazing tool, yes. Is it for everyone? No. First, it is a learned skill, so the client must be ready to do it and the therapist must be EMDR certified. They must also be prepared for the painful emotion that results from EMDR, which can be difficult for people to tolerate. Through the treatment the client becomes able to control their memory, thus deactivating the intense vulnerable emotions. People suffering from acute substance abuse issues, acute psychosis, suicidal thoughts, dissociative disorders, or some neurological issues need to be stabilized before proceeding with this treatment. Also, people with pending legal cases should consult with their lawyers before having this treatment because it could affect their testimony.


EMDR opened the doorway to treating trauma in a multicomplex disciplinary way. Through this method, other forms of reprocessing have developed, such as, Gentle Reprocessing (which is my go-to), Brain Spotting and Tapping have become powerful tools to help clients heal from difficult situations. Some might even call it life-changing.


Karen Peabody, LICSW is a therapist and business consultant for social workers and therapists interested in starting their private practice. She founded Forgewell Solutions in East Bridgewater, MA. Her office is a great place to start a private practice. Visit her FOR THERAPISTS page to learn more.


  • Writer: Karen Peabody, LICSW
    Karen Peabody, LICSW
  • Jan 13, 2020


Understand how powerful your brain and your body are.

We are the most magnificent computer ever built. You have the answers to heal yourself and these answers are entirely unique to you, but you need to understand your mind/body connection first.


Stop fighting against your feelings.

If there is something triggered in you, it can help determine clues for how you need to proceed.

  • Do you frequently feel anger?

  • Do you frequently feel fearful?

  • Are you constantly worried?

These are triggered responses to an event that has been embedded in your psyche to protect yourself. However, this emotion tends to become an immediate response when anything happens in your life. To start to change this pattern try to meet the feeling with the opposite emotion.

  • Be curious about anger...

  • Embrace support when fearful…

  • Conjure up a time when you felt powerful when worry kicks in…

These are building neural pathways in your brain that are making shortcuts to stable secure feelings. This takes a lot of practice. This is an opportunity to work on experiencing your emotions as if you were a 3rd party. If you are used to experiencing road rage, no more slamming your hands on your steering wheel. You can feel your feels, but not physically react and then move into empathy, perhaps something was happening with that person that cut you off. Maybe it takes you 2 hours to get to this conclusion. Keep your focus on trying to connect empathy with this incident. This takes practice.


Take time to breathe.

Sit quietly, upright in a comfortable chair with your feet on the floor. Have your arms by your side. Start to breathe deeply, slow and steady. You can even count these breaths very slowly. Allow yourself to release tension from the top of your head moving now your forehead, eyes, temples, mouth, chin, tongue, jaw, neck, shoulders, chest, arms, lower back, legs, feet. Continue to breathe, counting each breath. Start to imagine bringing heat to your hands, feeling the temperature change, tingling, coming from the palm of your hand, or your fingers moving in. Notice the changes and experience the sensation. Allow yourself to relax in this experience. Practice this two times a day.


This experience shows you how powerful your brain is. The thought you created in your head changed how your body feels. Think about that!


Smile.

Think about something that makes you worry. Something in the moment, that is negatively affecting you. Pause, close your eyes and smile. Keep smiling, keep going, hold it for 2 minutes. Continue to breathe deeply, smiling the whole time. Try to switch back and think about what was worrying you. Difficult to hold on to the thought? Yes, smiling uses different muscles and neural pathways that do not allow you to focus on worry. Practice this two times a day.


Engage peripheral vision.

Same as smiling. It is impossible to stay with a thought that produces anxiety and worry while actively engaging peripheral vision. Find a spot in front of your eyes to focus on. Allow your focus to be here for 7-10 seconds and then without moving your head, find a spot 90 degrees to focus on. Give yourself 15 to 20 seconds in this exercise. Your anxiety will reduce just by focusing on this activity.


These activities are meant to weaken the connections we have built that make us react in the same ways. If you frequently get angry in traffic, can't walk into a room without a complete anxiety attack, get nervous before a conference call, now is the time to try all of these tips. Start making your brain and your body healthier!


Karen Peabody, LICSW is a therapist and business consultant for social workers and therapists interested in starting their private practice. She founded Forgewell Solutions in East Bridgewater, MA. Her office is a great place to start a private practice. Visit her FOR THERAPISTS page to learn more.

  • Writer: Karen Peabody, LICSW
    Karen Peabody, LICSW
  • Jan 2, 2020

Updated: Jan 4, 2020


Not all trauma is the same and most people will never escape the result of something bad happening to them. This is a part of life. There are three major types of trauma:

1) A single incident of tragic occurrence/es (accident, crash)

2) Witnessing tragic occurrence (domestic violence or emotional parental separation such as substance abuse or jail)

3) Chronic unstable living situation (poverty, frequent moving, difficult peer relations)


Arguably there are more incidents that cause trauma but these are the main three that we reference. These incidences have the potential to cause emotional and physical changes to your body that have the potential of long term effects.


The long term effects usually come in ways of emotional hyper-vigilance or emotional collapse. Most people do not understand the link between what they have lived through and what this has done to their emotional and physical self.


These changes can be reversed by taking steps starting today. See our next post coming soon: 5 Steps to Change your Emotions to learn more.


Karen Peabody, LICSW is a therapist and business consultant for social workers and therapists interested in starting their private practice. She founded Forgewell Solutions in East Bridgewater, MA. Her office is a great place to start a private practice. Visit her FOR THERAPISTS page to learn more.


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